viernes, octubre 31, 2003

ea ea... kinky stuff:

estas noticias son de mis favoritas... Neta que no entiendo la inhibicion de las personas hacia el sexo... pero bueno, la vida se debe disfrutar del todo:

Oh my gush!

Some women can barely pee in a public bathroom in a private stall. Imagine being able to ejaculate on command while lying spread-eagle on the floor of your local sex shop with a crowd gawking and passers-by on the street just feet away.

"It's about power and pleasure and what your body can do," the political science professor tells the couples attending the workshop. One of the things she loves about female ejaculation, according to her book Whore Carnival (Autonomedia Press), is that, "It dethrones male ejaculation."

Oh, and that it feels fantastic.

Bell, who'd never had any type of orgasm until she was 29, taught herself to ejaculate in 1989, and has been teaching, writing, performing and making art about it ever since. Back then, there were only a handful of women promoting female ejaculation (though there were plenty denying it was even possible). These days, a Google search turns up almost 300,000 entries for female ejaculation.

Whereas the clit was previously viewed as an external organ with all the bits inside sold separately, these women described it as a much larger organ. Its shaft runs along the inside of the vaginal wall with the urethra running down the middle - sort like an inverted penis. The clitoral sponge encircles the urethra and is the area known as the G-spot or, if you prefer, the female prostate.

As Bell settled in for a live demo, she slid a plastic speculum in sideways and shone a flashlight so we could see the corrugated roof of her vagina and her urethral opening. Bell invited us to insert a gloved finger if we wanted to get a feel for it. No one took her up on the offer. I guess it seemed rude to go rooting around in a stranger's pussy.

While Bell took a Hitachi Magic Wand to her clit and inserted a metal Kegelsizer (like a barbell for your pussy), she further explained that when the clitoral sponge fills up with liquid, it often causes a sort of burning sensation like you have to pee. If you go against instinct and push when you feel this, and if you stimulate the area between your clit and your urethral opening, you might ejaculate. Which she did.

"It's something you have to train your body to do," she continued, as she prepared for another in her repertoire of ejaculation styles, this one while on her knees. Strengthening your PC muscles with Kegel exercises (squeezing your vagina like you're stopping the flow of urine) is a good place to start.

After her third and final ejaculation of the evening, and a round of applause, one woman explained that, while she gets to the point where she feels she could ejaculate, she still worries she'll pee. Bell assured her that as long as you go beforehand, while there may be traces of urine in female ejaculate, it is not pee. She's even had hers analyzed to prove it.

As for criticism that all this talk about female ejaculation puts added performance pressure on women and has folks desperately rummaging around looking for the magic button, Bell simply says, "Good sex is good sex." And I'm not about to argue with that.

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